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 Supreme Court Rules on Retroactive Child Support in Henry and Henry- If you haven't been properly disclosing your income to calculate child support,  prepare for a very large bill in legal fees and an equally large retroactive child support award... Get your copy of the Supreme Court of Canada judgment here

Danny Guspie comments to Canadian Press: Retroactive Child Support in Henry and Henry - "According to the ruling the child support orders should provide payor parents with "the benefit of predictability.The ruling is disappointing because it does not appear to make any reference to decreasing child support payments when income declines. It's a very cumbersome system. You have to pay $3,500 for a lawyer if you lose your job to get started on a variation. If you've lost your job, how do you do that?" Read the story here...and other quotes from the interviews here.


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Danny Guspie interviewed in Canada's National Newspaper - The Globe and Mail : Men need a note from women to receive the new child tax benefit - "The form is offensive and goes against the Charter of Rights, said Mr. Guspie. “I would encourage any man that finds himself in that situation to simply phone up his local tax office and say ‘how would you like to face me in federal court next week?'”.  

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Alberta Court of Appeal ruling on retroactivity of child support. We have always suggested that fathers be sure to always disclose their income or they may be paying retroactive child support, regardless of any request for proof of annual income. The “Henry and Henry” case in Alberta consolidates this principle, and it will affect every father paying child support in Canada.

Henry and Henry


The introduction of spousal support guidelines to Canada. While they are being proclaimed as voluntary, you can expect many Courts to refer to them in their judgments making them case law.

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Where the arguments fail for "Roe v. Wade for Men" and the Women's Movement This controversial case will force re-examination of abortion rights for women, by asking what rights men have. Abortion is based upon the legal fiction that a fetus is not legally a child, and therefore has no rights. If that is so, then why can't a man opt out before the birth too?

Get your copy of the Roe v. Wade for Men" lawsuit here


Father wins Custody in Court of Appeal in Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) - In this case, the Ontario Court of Appeal upheld a Superior Court of Justice order, transferring custody of the parties children. This was due to the mother's insistentce on doing everything possible to make access impossible. This judgment is great news for divorced dads in Ontario.  

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Another Adult Child of Divorce Speaks Out - Adults Suck
Location: BlogsDivorced Dad Daily  
Posted by: Danny Guspie9/23/2007

Great piece here: "As a child of divorce between two parents with few differences other than conflicting outlooks - the kid left in me wants to scream stop it any way you can even if it means you have to drop to your knees and plead."

Most adults just don't get it - Unless you've gone through it as a child, you cannot possibly know anything about what us "children of divorce" go through. My comment - "Adults Suck" especially when they forget their childhood, humanity, responsibilities and selfishly place their needs above their obligations to their children.

You would think Judges, the most educated members of society would get that. But they don't. and we've seen plenty of cases just like this:

A father who has had his kids for many, many years finally gets an order of child support. He's forced to keep going to Family Court, spend money, and not get any support for the kids, for excuses that would never be tolerated if the roles were reversed. What woman waits years for such an order? Oh and he doesn't get an order of enforcement of child support by the Family Responsibility Office. The Judge turned down what is a routine order in every child support matter in Ontario - enforcement.

This particular mother and the way the Court has let her off the hook for years epitomizes everything bigoted about Family Court. He told the Judge that his kids were begging him to stop all action in Family Court (mom was putting a lot of pressure on them, as you can all imagine.)

Why is it that mothers rarely pay child support when they lose custody?

Because - Adults Suck.

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Re: Another Adult Child of Divorce Speaks Out - Adults Suck  By Bill on 3/3/2006
My parents split when I was 10. Today at 33, I still can't get them in the same room without lots of BS and fighting. So I ask who are the kids here? There are some days when I feel like telling them both to grow up. They are really a bad example to my 4 year old daughter who innocently asks me why don't grammy and grampy have fun and laugh and want to play with me like you and mommy? At least my kid has a couple of grown ups for parents.

Re: Another Adult Child of Divorce Speaks Out - Adults Suck  By danny on 3/4/2006
Mine are exactly the same way - I can't even get either of them apart or together into the same room with me, myself and I, because they are so bitter. It can be really sad when the child has to be the parent. My mother refused to come to my 1st wedding because my father was there...

It is a terrible crippling emotional burden that takes most of one's life to get past as a child of divorce. I can tell you that I will not sentence our kids to the same thing. It has taken years for my ex and I to be civil to each other, but I know our daughter and son appreciate it.

I figure it will come full circle when our daughter marries - I'll walk her down the ailse and at the reception have a dance with her Mom. That's because it is her day - not mine.

If only I could get my parents to understand what that means and just get over themselves. I forgive them and love them, but I sure wish I could like them too. Because deep down inside they are great people who taught me so much about life.

Its a part of me they will never ever share - and is for that reason I do this work: Fathers Rights = Children Winning Peace.

Thanks for the comment and visiting - come back often for updates, tactics, strategies, free resources, meeting information and help.

Danny Guspie - Executive Director
Fathers Resources International


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